Today I am learning about Communication in BDSM. I also got my first rule today rule 1 is a communication rule, everyday I will communicate with my Master by sending a good morning e mail no later than 10am and a good night e mail no later than 10pm.
Communication is a key foundation block not only in any lifestyle based relationship, but in all relationships we experience throughout our lives. Communication is one of those topics in the lifestyle that can never be discussed enough or the importance stressed enough.
Communication is vital to this lifestyle, and you cannot effectively communicate if everybody isn't using the same language.
BDSM has a huge variety of lifestyles, fetishes, activities and also kinks. Think of a huge menu that includes every possible sexual expression you can think of and many you never dreamed existed and it is part of this buffet we call BDSM. Each individual picks and chooses as many of these activities as appeal to them. Yes, there are some exotic-sounding dishes on this buffet, but not everybody tastes every dish, let alone makes it a part of their regular diet.
That is why tolerance and acceptance should be the cornerstone of our community.
In any and all of these activities, trust and communication is the most important component. If you don't trust your partner, and cannot honestly communicate with him or her, you have no business messing around with BDSM. It is a very powerful magic.
I promise to always communicate as best as I can to my Master.
Very nice to read your work
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